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Would you shower with a gay/bi person of the same sex? Should military men and women be forced to shower with gay and bi people of the same sex?
If Gay men and women are allowed in the military (under other terms than "don't ask, don't tell"), what should be done to stop the tension that would take place in the showers with the gay and bisexuals?
How would you address this problem if you were president? | Oh for goodness sake. If they're gonna perve on your rearend it won't take a shower to cause it!!!
What will it matter, in the end? In the military, no sane gay man is going to stare at someone's body in the shower. Same goes for a lesbian. They'd be too worried about getting their butt kicked for it by a bunch of angry bigots if they got caught.
The government in America needs to grow up and realise that they can't control what we think or feel and that to try is a breach of our constitutional rights. | Will openly gay soldiers be able to shower with those of the same sex if DADT is repealed? If so, will men and women now be able to shower together too? | | Who cares. It's not like people are gawking at each other. | Gay soldiers and straight = shower? I know gay soldiers have been showering with straight for a long time in the military in combat zones, but what about roommates too.
Its one thing to shower with a gay guy and not know hes gay, its another to ahower with a gay guy and know hes gay; the "it makes me feel uncomfortable claim," right, falls under sexaul harrasement. Since you are forcing peolpe that are attracted to one sex to shower together, thats why females/males dont shower with one another in the military. So why is it any different for gay/straight. Some people claim, gays are subject to same rules as straight, yes, but males/females still dont shower together currently because if one was caught taking a innocent shower with the girls minding his own business, it would be sexual harrasement (which by definition CAN be making someone feel uncomfortable in a sexual nature).
None of this they should man up, because the same should be said for women than, hence we should have coed showers but we dont. Why should male soldiers be treated any differently than women?
I just forsee a world of confusion/lawsuits about to happen! From a logical perspective if straight guys are forced to shower with gay guys, then different sex showers/restrooms/roomates should go right out the window; if not than the military better be ready for tons of sexual harrasment lawsuits.
Yes I have been in combat, and we had seperate restrooms, its not like WW2 over there in case some people didnt know. Also, I was infantry so I may be wrong, but Im pretty sure in barracks a male and female cannot be roommates in the barracks room; seperate rooms due to sexual gender, which is also sexual orientation.
Do you think they will create seperate facilites for gays as they have done so with girls and guys? | Haa, that's good question.
To my mind there's nothing wrong with showering together 'by default', but those, who have some 'uncomfortable feelings' must have the right to take an individual shower.
The same goes for women. I personally don't see any problems with common or mixed showers, no problem for me. In Germany, Finland and many other countries public bathhouses and saunas have been traditionally 'unisex' for many centuries. But again, understanding the protestant historical origins of the US culture and related complexes, which have been nourished and built up for centuries too, the law could always give those 'more American' people the alternative of showering separately from those who are 'less American' in socio-sexual cultural terms. Each to his own, the rest will be done and proved by time and generation. | Gay soldiers and straight in same shower/facilties? I know gay soldiers have been showering with straight for a long time in the military in combat zones, but what about roommates too.
Its one thing to shower with a gay guy and not know hes gay, its another to ahower with a gay guy and know hes gay; the "it makes me feel uncomfortable claim," right, falls under sexual harrasement. Since you are forcing peolpe that are attracted to one sex to shower together, thats why females/males dont shower with one another in the military. So why is it any different for gay/straight. Some people claim, gays are subject to same rules as straight, yes, but males/females still dont shower together currently because if one was caught taking a innocent shower with the girls minding his own business, it would be sexual harrasement (which by definition CAN be making someone feel uncomfortable in a sexual nature).
None of this they should man up, because the same should be said for women than, hence we should have coed showers but we dont. Why should male soldiers be treated any differently than women?
I just forsee a world of confusion/lawsuits about to happen! From a logical perspective if straight guys are forced to shower with gay guys, then different sex showers/restrooms/roomates should go right out the window; if not than the military better be ready for tons of sexual harrasment lawsuits.
Yes I have been in combat, and we had seperate restrooms, its not like WW2 over there in case some people didnt know. Also, I was infantry so I may be wrong, but Im pretty sure in barracks a male and female cannot be roommates in the barracks room; seperate rooms due to sexual gender, which is also sexual orientation.
I am purely asking from in a ethical/locial sense. This has nothing to do DADT, since its already been repealed. I only ask cause what if a soldier had a bad expeirnce with a gay persion early in their live, it would be the same as a girl getting treated bad by a guy. I know MOST gay people wont do anything sexually. But society recognizes seperate facilites for girls/guys due to what if and for privacy/being comfortable. The same respect should be given to straight women and men in the military. I just dont forsee the military/society giving a crap about straight soldiers rights, because
A- it will cost tons of money
B-Will cause hassle and in the military thats bad
C- as long as women/men are seperate who cares mentality
Do you think they will create seperate facilites for gays as they have done so with girls and guys? | dadt has been repealed? thats great :D
im not sure about the showers. ive actually thought about it before and i think itd be best if everyone had their own shower cubicle, like with toilets, but its the military so its probably not gonna happen. | Walked in on my gay brother having sex with a girl? Last night, I saw it all! So not only am I mentally scared but I'm also confused as he told my parents 3 weeks ago he was gay!
When I saw him today he just laughed, then he came out the shower and said to me don't tell mom and dad and I was like ok 1 question I thought you were gay and he laughed and walked away! | | maybe hes pretending some guys say there day to get a girl not to like them and some girls go as far as to get with a gay guy because they really want to he could be faking in a way to get laid and get more girls who think he really is and try to go out with him and so called "turn him out" but back into the straight sense | Is it ok to have gay sex and a gay relationship at age 14?
Ok so, this is very weird to explain, I haven't told anyone and haven't discussed it with anyone but him. This happened about 2 weeks ago.
There was this guy, like the hottest guy ever (im a guy) he is the same age as me, and so I can admit, I am not gay, but he was kinda cute, we were friends. And I have known him for about 2 years. and he is a on my sports team. He was just a hot blond But anyway, he told me that he thought I was cute and hot at the end of a practice and I didn't say anything but walked away cause I was kind of embarrassed. But two days after that, after the game he walked up to me and asked me to follow him behind the bleachers and asked me if I wanted to have sex with him, I admit that he was cute and I kind of wanted to. So I told my parents his parents were taking me home but I dont know what he told his parents. The game ended at 8:00pm and we walked to a gas station and bought some soda, and we waited for about an hour for everyone at the park to be gone, we walked to the park holding hands because we thought noone could recognize us at night, we went into a clean port-o-potty and made out and he gave me a ******** and I came into his mouth, after that I didnt want to make out with him because of the sperm, but I didnt cause I was horny, after that we did eachother and did various other sexual things. He ejaculated into me 2 time and I think I did it into him about 3 times, and we did *** other times but not into eachother. We walked to his house and spent the night, and when his parents were asleep I slept with him into his bed and we did it again silently, we woke up and waited for his parents to leave for work and then we had sex in his shower. And played video games and some other things until his mom came home and dropped me off. We go the same school. We only talked about it one time but we were are dated secretly (holding hands and making out when noone was there). We are best friends and we still are but we are secretly dated and have made out a couple times. We want to know if it is ok to have a gay relationship with this society, we havent told our parents or anyone else. We are a bit afraid of coming out and of how people will treat us. We arent worried about babies (cause we are both guys). But he is so hot and I dont want to stop. Can someone give us some useful information of how to deal with our problems. But we arent having any friendship or relationship problems. Any help? | Yes, it's okay, but be sure to use protection to avoid STDs.
____ | If people dislike gays so much then why do they feel the need to shower themselves with the gay lifestyle? If you dislike gay people, then why not just stay away from gay people? How come you see so called “Straight people” in gay clubs, bars, parades, and chat rooms, expressing there dislike for gay people. It’s like they hate gays so much, but love to be around us and a part of our community. Honestly it’s like some of these people think about gay sex and the gay lifestyle more then I do and I am gay. I don’t like country music, so I don’t listen it or go to country bars. I don’t go to the country music section of Best Buy and try to convince country fans not to buy anything because I personally find the music depressing. Personally I don’t care what kind of music people listen to in the privacy of there own homes. The truth is that other then an occasional flip past a channel where country music is being played, a advertisement about the CMA’s, or stumbling across a country music album rating in the news paper, country music doesn’t really cross my mind. I mean I know it’s out there but it’s got nothing to do with me. I imagine that if secretly liked Faith Hill, that it would be on my mind a lot and might force me to stalk Faith Hill fans so that I could put them down to make me feel better. I might even project some of my own self feelings on them to compensate. What do you think? | | Because they have no lives, and they're unhappy with their own pathetic ones so they want to make everyone else miserable with them. Remember that what people don't like in others, is what they secretly don't like in themselves. | Does being naked with the same sex make you gay? hey guys, i know this might sound dumb, but do you have to be gay to go skinny dipping with a bunch of guys or just one guy? or if a girl goes skinny dipping with a girl or a bunch of girls does it make her a lesbian?
i mean im not gay but if some guys started skinny dipping and i swam with them..............isnt that a bit strange ?
does showering with the same sex make you gay?
if you dont fantasie about them i am 16 | | No you dont have to be gay to do any of that. I am a male and in my teen years, I went skinny dipping a lot with friends. I am a heterosexual. | GAY SEX... MY POO KEEPS COMING OUT WHEN I PRACTICE WITH A DILDO!? Hi i'm new to gay sex, I am open now about my sexuality, however when I masturbate and use a dildo up my ***, poo comes out on the dildo.. Why? And how can I stop this from happening when I have real gay sex? This is really frustrating and worrying, I am very clean and shower everyday.. So dont understand what Im doing wrong? | | think you may have done yourself some harm best see the doc | I had gay sex with my straight friend? I'm a gay male, 16 and my friend is a straight male, 17. We have been friends forever. He knows that I'm gay and has been very accepting. Today, we were both in the locker room after gym and I was looking at him while we were changing. He is VERY attractive. I got this huge ***** and he noticed.
I went over and pulled up his shirt to see him without his shirt on, he didn't mind. I got so horny that I pushed him into the lockers and we start to make out. We are going crazy! I started to take his shirt off and with his gym shorts already off, I pushed him in his boxer briefs up against the locker.
It was beautiful seeing him in his boxer briefs and short white socks. Our boxers came off and he picked me up, spread my legs, and pushed me up against a locker. His penis went inside of me and it felt sooo good! We were going crazy and we both moaned so loud and then he came inside me! It was amazing! I then pushed him into a locker, spread his legs, and came inside him.
Both of us were so happy and we started to put our clothes back on but, he put his boxer briefs back on and I got hard all over again. I went over, got him against the wall, took his boxers off, and ****** him. His feet with his white socks were off the ground because I was doing him so hard. He moaned so loudly! We were going absolutely crazy and then we both came inside each other again.
After school, we did it again and this time *** went everywhere! We loved it and now, he's laying next to me in bed. We need a shower but that'll probably mean more sex again.
Is this okay that I'm doing this with my friend? Also, is it okay if we came in each other and kept it in us? It was not protected sex but he is my friend and I don't plan on being sexually active with anyone other than him for a while. | | That was an interesting story. I think you should be asking your friend if he's alright with that... |
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